tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28674373.post779035924569765649..comments2023-11-02T04:30:03.841-07:00Comments on Maryann Miller's - It's Not All Gravy: Monday Morning MusingsMaryannwriteshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09479027709233807149noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28674373.post-72223094921097608842011-03-24T06:52:35.822-07:002011-03-24T06:52:35.822-07:00It took a few years, Maryann, but I finally discon...It took a few years, Maryann, but I finally disconnected most of my hot buttons related to family. They count too much to ever feel as though I hate them, no matter how annoying they are. :)Patricia Stolteyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17192369425956406122noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28674373.post-12102497798000180722011-03-22T14:40:42.210-07:002011-03-22T14:40:42.210-07:00Good insight from your father, Marvin. Thanks for ...Good insight from your father, Marvin. Thanks for sharing it.Maryannwriteshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09479027709233807149noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28674373.post-34038457398310596452011-03-22T06:50:17.323-07:002011-03-22T06:50:17.323-07:00My father, who was the consummate, 'centered&#...My father, who was the consummate, 'centered' emotionally, almost Zen-like parent, taught me a valuable lesson when I was a boy seething with rage at ... I can't even remember who or why, but, he said, "Always remember, Marvin, harboring hatred toward a person does more harm to the one doing the hating than it does the hated person."<br /><br />That has helped, learning to just let it roll off, and let it go. But of course in a line-in relationship like a marriage, you must, as you have learned and written here, confront the situation as well ... before it blows all out of proportion. <br /><br /><a href="http://theoldsilly.com" rel="nofollow">Marvin D Wilson</a>The Old Sillyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09661188622348794193noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28674373.post-86263353526679178422011-03-21T17:58:12.830-07:002011-03-21T17:58:12.830-07:00Thanks Carol. Glad you like the look of the new de...Thanks Carol. Glad you like the look of the new design. I've been tying to make it more eye appealing.Maryannwriteshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09479027709233807149noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28674373.post-60401085405118143972011-03-21T12:04:19.440-07:002011-03-21T12:04:19.440-07:00I'm back. Here I was, working along, and I rem...I'm back. Here I was, working along, and I remembered you had a new blog look and I forgot to comment on it. I like :)Carol Kilgorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15168273312704732896noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28674373.post-58843803093850304792011-03-21T09:43:04.896-07:002011-03-21T09:43:04.896-07:00What a great attitude! I need to work off my anger...What a great attitude! I need to work off my anger - usually with great noise of some kind - before I can get past it and move on.Carol Kilgorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15168273312704732896noreply@blogger.com