Monday, September 20, 2010

Anger - Not Always a Bad Thing

I was sorting through some handouts yesterday from grief workshops I used to conduct in my role as a hospital chaplain. Several about anger were clipped together, and when I glanced through them I realized that I have always had a problem around anger. Probably because I grew up in a family that had no clue about the healthy ways to express that particular emotion. Anger tended to erupt like some dormant volcano, and I would run to avoid the flow of lava.

It took me a long time to realize how much that instinct to run away from anger and confrontation affected my writing. I could be working on a scene that had some major conflict between two characters, and I would quickly insert reason and bring the level of conflict down.

This was pointed out to me by Stephen Marro, a producer/director in New York that I worked with for a while doing script editing and doctoring. We also wrote a few scripts together. He would come up with the ideas and the basic story beats, and I was to flesh them out. He read one of my scenes and then asked, "Where's the beef, Maryann? These people are talking this conflict to death."

So, much like I had to force myself to allow my characters to use colorful language (see my post at The Blood Red Pencil) I had to force myself to let my characters get really angry and ratchet up the conflict.

What about you? Are there emotions that you struggle with in your writing? How hard is it for you to separate yourself from your characters?

5 comments:

The Words Crafter said...

Hmmmm, a very insightful query. I hate confrontation but my story is chock full of it. No problem there...

However, the softer emotions, I struggle with them. Trust issues. I don't know how my MC is going to do there....

I hadn't thought about whether or not the difficulties I have would show up in the MS....

Thanks for the head's up.....

Helen Ginger said...

I'm not good at confrontation in real life and haven't pushed myself in fiction with it either. It'll be interesting to see what happens when I do, though.

Helen

Maryann Miller said...

After reading your post for today on your blog, I don't think you have a problem with the softer emotions, Word Crafter.

Carol Kilgore said...

On the page, it's easier for me to deal with large emotions than it is with the subtleties of smaller ones. In life, it's the opposite.

Laura Eno said...

I have the same problem. My characters will get very angry but snap out of it quickly--too quickly. :)